Fisting Part II

The class I attended
Mistress Joanne was the presenter. The two hour class was a combination of lecture and demos. I believe there was a section with hands on fisting, but I left before that time.

We started out with some safety and experiences.
Mistress Joanne emphasized a few items.
She doesn’t use SSC. She has issue with this terminology and uses RACK instead. RACK is Risk Aware Consensual Kink. She’s been practicing fisting for many years and says there are dangerous to fisting since it is edge play. She gave us examples of fisting gone wrong. One of the demo subs also explained personal fisting gone wrong situations. Above all, she let us know that fisting takes lots of patience and practice.

Preparing the scene
As a fister she likes to keep her fingers well manicured with short nails. She has seen people with long nails who pad it with cotton balls before slipping on a glove. She always uses a glove for the safety of the bottom and top.

Supplies needed on hand
1. Antibacterial cleansers
2. Gloves
3. Paper towels
4. Disposable underpad
5. Baby wipes
6. Throw away cups/containers
7. Lube, lube and more lube
8. Shower curtain which prevents liquid penetration

Starting
Fisting in real life isn’t as spontaneous as it is in the books. From my observation, the set up was more extensive than I thought. Not only in a comfortable and safe environment, but in getting the fistee to be fisted. For most people, a lot of foreplay is required for a sub to open up and take a fist in their pussy or ass. The two demo subs are not regular people which is why they were chosen as demos. Both required little to no prep to open up. Mistress Joanne reiterated – DO NOT TRY THIS AT HOME on first try. Experienced bottoms will take less time but it could take years before this is possible.

She recommended having lube in a disposable cup or bowling on hand. Proper fisting does no damage. Yes, a little blood can be expected. There should be NO bright red blood. If there is more than spotting, go to ER immediately.

Anal fisting
The colon is delicate. Forcing can break parts of it. The most common damaged part due to force is the bend between the rectum and the Sigmoid colon. On most people, when lying on the back, hang a right when fisting. When lying on the front, hang a left. I say most people because not everyone’s internal organs are the same. In addition, experienced bottoms will have “trained” their colon so the bend becomes more of a gentle slope.

Question 1 ~ I heard anal fisting will cause the asshole to gape and you lose control of the sphincter. You’ll have to wear diapers for life and poop just falls out.

This is not the case. Actually, through fisting practice, the muscle becomes stronger and the fisted gain more control over the muscle. Now, if you tear the muscle apart, well, that is damaged which will take surgery AND healing to bring the muscle back.

Question 2 ~ Isn’t it shitty and smelling when you fist? Don’t people fart like crazy?

Yes and no. Cleaning should be done before fisting. See the J Lubejack website mentioned in the first post on cleansing. The demo sub explained his cleansing routine.

He recommended avoiding certain foods – nuts, poppy seeds, asparagus, cauliflower and beans. Nuts and poppy seeds in the colon when rubbed will cause little tears and be too painful for most. Asparagus, cauliflower and beans cause gas.

He usually ate like normal and the day before, he did a thorough colon cleansing with an enema bag. Usually it was tap water with 1 table spoon of castile soap. Some people use a shower shot which is attached to the shower.

Fisting Part Three

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