Blowjob Basics

I've had a few people ask me about blowjob technique.  I'm not an expert... here's what I've learned over the years. There are a few more tricks too, but these are my basics.

Recommendation

1. Make sure to drink water before hand or have a glass near by. For some reason, the slobbery stuff really feels good on the dick. If my mouth is dry, it just doesn't feel as good for him.

2. If he wants me to deep throat, I'm no Pamela Anderson Lee. (I don't know how she swallows Tommy's long and thick dick. It's amazing. My DH is about average length. But his width is what bothers me because my throat seems narrow too. His circumference is 6.5".) So, in order for me to deep throat, I can't do it on my knees with my head turned down. I mean, please, take a look at the angle, it makes no sense to have the head down and the dick trying to go up into the mouth and then do a 90 or greater degree turn to go down the throat.

The best is if your mouth to neck is one smooth line. It also depends on how his dick slants based on his erection. Is it up straight? To the side? Pointing down? As long as you have your mouth to neck in a straight line, you can slip his dick in the same line to go deeper.

3. Using the tongue. Can you ripple your tongue? How much can you wiggle with your tongue? I tend to do a wave like motion with my tongue from tip to back of the tongue so that it presses hard underneath the head of his dick. That extra touch helps arouse him.

4. It's a blow job for a reason. No hands for the most part. However, to start out, you can cheat by using you hand to help stroke the base of his dick to mid way as you get your mouth around the head to the middle. This works well if you also stroke with a twist. The up down motion on a dick is boring. A little twist makes it more exciting. Note - every guy likes it different.

5. Vary the pace. Slow and steady is good. However, changing up the pace is good otherwise his dick goes numb and it will feel good, but won't push him over the edge.

6. Mind the stepchildren. Cup his balls and caress them. Sometimes, guys like them sucked an licked.

7. Change up the sucking to nibbling and licking the dick. It's not just an in/out action.

8. Humming. So, if the head of the dick is in the throat or the back of the throat, try to hum a little. Some guys really get off on that. It's a different vibration sensation.

9. Make noise. Apparently guys like it when you make some noise. Nothing too fake, but if they think you are enjoying, it will help get them in the mindset.

10. The taste - Basically, I let the cum shoot to the back of my throat and just swallow. I have no issues with swallowing so it helps. Sometimes, though, he wants it cupped on the tongue for him to see. I try not to let the tip of tongue touch it because of my taste preferences. This is kind of sexy I guess. But just don't let it touch the sides of your tongue. It won't be as bad. At least for my guy, the taste is more sweet acidic and I prefer salty.



So depending on how his cum tastes and the flavour you like or dislike, that's the diagram of where to avoid it on your tongue.

Now, if the guy drinks a lot of coffee, it does taste kind of bitter. Beer is the same. I've been told pineapple juice to help sweeten the flavour, but whatever. Just swallow fast or spit.

11. Your jaw gets tired? Sometimes guys like to be edge for 45 minutes for a good blow job. Mine held off for an hour and a half at least a couple times of the year. So your jaw gets kind of sore. Best recommendation - chew gum. The gum chewing strengthens your jaw muscles so you aren't as fatigued.

Now, these are just things I've picked up over the years and tried. Each man is different in his preference. Try them out and notice how he responds.

Comments

Keiko Alvarez said…
Ahem - you have no mention of teeth. They are a very important factor!
HAH - They are important. Some men like teeth and others cringe.

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