Cock Stuffing ~ Sounding from a SME
One of the women in the BDSM GoodReads group was kind of enough to provide more information
Most of the pictures are prince's wands, which usually are meant to be indwelling and/ or are most often custom made. The full set is servicable but not especially typical of what gets used in play. Nearly all the sets I have are double ended, some have half size steps from one end to the other. The sets that are extremely curved on the end are a bit more difficult to play with and more likely to cause internal scratches and such. A scratch today inside the urethra could be a keloid (knot of scar tissue) that obstructs the urethra in 20 years, so it's generally best to use the ones with a gentle curve.
The biggest thing to remember is that this is sensation and power play, not pain play. If it hurts you're not only not doing it right, but you're probably damaging your sub. Femmes can be sounded also, and the g-spot is a target for stimulation, but it's most likely to be a power thing.
With guys it's mindf***k at first. Mention sounds and what they are and most guys will crab their junk just thinking about it. Once you get past the initial intimidate, however, they can often become a pain in their wish to play more. "Mistress, can we play with sounds again" often becomes a common statement and you may find that you end up using it as reward. Obviously, prostate stimulation from the front is one of the benefits of this sort of play.
Use lots and lots of lube, preferably water based to minimize potential irritation. PLEASE use gloves, it is just so easy for a guy to get a UTI with this sort of play.
Remember, it's not about pain with this kind of play...and if you break your toys (your subs) you can't play with them anymore.
Most of the pictures are prince's wands, which usually are meant to be indwelling and/ or are most often custom made. The full set is servicable but not especially typical of what gets used in play. Nearly all the sets I have are double ended, some have half size steps from one end to the other. The sets that are extremely curved on the end are a bit more difficult to play with and more likely to cause internal scratches and such. A scratch today inside the urethra could be a keloid (knot of scar tissue) that obstructs the urethra in 20 years, so it's generally best to use the ones with a gentle curve.
The biggest thing to remember is that this is sensation and power play, not pain play. If it hurts you're not only not doing it right, but you're probably damaging your sub. Femmes can be sounded also, and the g-spot is a target for stimulation, but it's most likely to be a power thing.
With guys it's mindf***k at first. Mention sounds and what they are and most guys will crab their junk just thinking about it. Once you get past the initial intimidate, however, they can often become a pain in their wish to play more. "Mistress, can we play with sounds again" often becomes a common statement and you may find that you end up using it as reward. Obviously, prostate stimulation from the front is one of the benefits of this sort of play.
Use lots and lots of lube, preferably water based to minimize potential irritation. PLEASE use gloves, it is just so easy for a guy to get a UTI with this sort of play.
Remember, it's not about pain with this kind of play...and if you break your toys (your subs) you can't play with them anymore.
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