Fisting Part III
Lube, Lube and more Lube
The instructor wanted us to know that lube is your friend. The lube mentioned on the website I mentioned above will easily last most people over a year. When using lube, there are several considerations.
Consideration 1. Are you fisting vaginal or anal?
This is important because, any lube that is sugar based, is NEVER to be used in the vagina.
Why is this?
Because sugar in the pussy will generally cause yeast infections. Yeast infections are BAD. Before so many different lubes were available, Crisco was popular.
Crisco also has sugars in it, which can also trigger a yeast infection.
So what? Can't I just douche my vagina afterwards? One of those feminine douches I see in the market?
Theoretically this can be done. It's not recommended because contrary to marketing and selling of the product, vaginal douching is not healthy for a woman. It can cause more problems. For more information on this, please contact your OB/GYN.
Consideration 2 - water or petroleum based?
Common Question Isn't vaseline okay? I read this in books all the time. And in online porn.
It's is best to go with water based lubes or silicon. Here's the problem with petroleum, it will damage the protective gear - gloves. Since it's best to wear gloves in vaginal or anal fisting, use lube that doesn't damage it.
Condition 3 ~ desensitize lubes, yes or no?
NO. For fisting, anything desensitizing is not recommended because it can cause tearing and damage which the fisted person will not feel. For it to be a bit numbing is okay, but it can not completely desensitize the anus or vagina.
Gloves
What kind of gloves are recommended?
Non latex without the little rough nubs on the finger tips is recommended. Many gloves now come with little barely noticeable bumps. These are great for picking things up. However, when in the ass, it can cause pain as it is amplified. If in the vagina, no worries. Have at it!
I can buy one size fits all, right?
No. Buy one that fist your hand perfectly. Anything that is too lose will bunch up and scrape uncomfortably in the ass. Some subs like this added texture. Most do not.
What length is recommended?
This depends on what you want to do. If you are fisting a pussy, you can only go so deep. Really, women don't have 12 inch deep vaginas. The average vagina goes no deeper than 6 inches(so I'm told). If the women here would like to measure themselves, I will be happy to create a hidden answer poll to show what the average is for women in this group.
If you are fisting an ass, some can go to 18 inches deep. It's best to have the entire body part going into the ass covered. (I say body part because some people do allow foots to be inserted up their ass. Yes, it's different, but it happens.)
There are 9", 12" and then the "calving" gloves. Go with the 12" inch if you want to make sure nothing gets on your forearm and if you can penetrate deeper than just the fist.
To keep the glove from being sucked off, tape the bottom of your glove to your arm. Use the standard medical tape. Try to do the edge and make it smooth so it doesn't tear or aggravate the bottom's ass.
The instructor wanted us to know that lube is your friend. The lube mentioned on the website I mentioned above will easily last most people over a year. When using lube, there are several considerations.
Consideration 1. Are you fisting vaginal or anal?
This is important because, any lube that is sugar based, is NEVER to be used in the vagina.
Why is this?
Because sugar in the pussy will generally cause yeast infections. Yeast infections are BAD. Before so many different lubes were available, Crisco was popular.
Crisco also has sugars in it, which can also trigger a yeast infection.
So what? Can't I just douche my vagina afterwards? One of those feminine douches I see in the market?
Theoretically this can be done. It's not recommended because contrary to marketing and selling of the product, vaginal douching is not healthy for a woman. It can cause more problems. For more information on this, please contact your OB/GYN.
Consideration 2 - water or petroleum based?
Common Question Isn't vaseline okay? I read this in books all the time. And in online porn.
It's is best to go with water based lubes or silicon. Here's the problem with petroleum, it will damage the protective gear - gloves. Since it's best to wear gloves in vaginal or anal fisting, use lube that doesn't damage it.
Condition 3 ~ desensitize lubes, yes or no?
NO. For fisting, anything desensitizing is not recommended because it can cause tearing and damage which the fisted person will not feel. For it to be a bit numbing is okay, but it can not completely desensitize the anus or vagina.
Gloves
What kind of gloves are recommended?
Non latex without the little rough nubs on the finger tips is recommended. Many gloves now come with little barely noticeable bumps. These are great for picking things up. However, when in the ass, it can cause pain as it is amplified. If in the vagina, no worries. Have at it!
I can buy one size fits all, right?
No. Buy one that fist your hand perfectly. Anything that is too lose will bunch up and scrape uncomfortably in the ass. Some subs like this added texture. Most do not.
What length is recommended?
This depends on what you want to do. If you are fisting a pussy, you can only go so deep. Really, women don't have 12 inch deep vaginas. The average vagina goes no deeper than 6 inches(so I'm told). If the women here would like to measure themselves, I will be happy to create a hidden answer poll to show what the average is for women in this group.
If you are fisting an ass, some can go to 18 inches deep. It's best to have the entire body part going into the ass covered. (I say body part because some people do allow foots to be inserted up their ass. Yes, it's different, but it happens.)
There are 9", 12" and then the "calving" gloves. Go with the 12" inch if you want to make sure nothing gets on your forearm and if you can penetrate deeper than just the fist.
To keep the glove from being sucked off, tape the bottom of your glove to your arm. Use the standard medical tape. Try to do the edge and make it smooth so it doesn't tear or aggravate the bottom's ass.
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