BDSM Bedtime Stories Season Three Episode One ~ Becoming Sir Excerpt and Interview

BDSM Bedtime Stories Season Three kicks off today!  For those of you who haven't joined the BDSM Group yet, come join us and get your kink on!

Today, Ella Dominguez shares Becoming Sir with us.  We have an added bonus of an interview with Sarah and Sawyer. Enjoy!

La Crimson Femme: Welcome everyone! Today we have two special guests, Sarah and Sawyer.  I’ve also invited Krissi to help interview.  Krissi is dying to meet Sarah and Sawyer.  Krissi will kick it off.

Krissi: *Bounces and waves at everyone*  Hello SARAH! So tell us Sarah, when Sawyer was interacting with the other subs you remained calm and showed no real signs of jealousy. Did your submissive nature make you more accepting of this or didn't you feel you had a right to him?

Sarah: *smiles*  Hello LCF and Krissi!  Krissi, initially I was accepting because I was genuinely excited for him during his learning process so my submissive nature had nothing to do with it. That being said - I was extremely attracted to him from our very first encounter and his curiosity and eagerness to learn only stoked that fire as time went on. Despite that attraction, I knew I didn’t have a right to him. He belonged to the BDSM community at that time and it would’ve have been wrong for me to put any kind of limitations or guilt on him for wanting to learn from other people. It’s important to experience different kinds of personalities in this lifestyle in order to grow and figure out exactly what does and does not appeal to you.

The jealousy slowly crept up on me and frankly, caught me off guard. After our time together at his home, that’s when it really hit me full force that I didn’t want him with anyone else. But again, I had no right to state that. *smiles sheepishly at Sawyer*

Sawyer: *pats Sarah’s leg*

La Crimson Femme: Sawyer, coming into kink as a dominant, when your submissive is already well entrenched in the BDSM lifestyle, what were your hardest moments?

Sawyer:  Communicating how I felt at a particular moment or what my needs and wants were. I felt exposed and discussing my ‘feelings’ is not something I’ve ever been comfortable with. Hell, I never even did that with my first wife, let alone strangers. It’s easier now, but in the beginning, it was painful.

Also, experimenting was difficult for me. Picking up something as intimidating as a whip or a flogger, or any item that can cause irreparable harm, is daunting and nerve-wracking. I’m not into doling out pain (to those I don’t feel deserve it) so having to put my inhibitions aside for the sake of the receiver was extremely difficult. It still is.

Krissi: Sawyer, admitting now your complete need for domination, do you wish you'd started sooner?

Sawyer:  Of course. However, I wouldn’t be the same man that I am now and I believe that things happen at their own time for a reason.

La Crimson Femme: Sarah, going from an experienced to newbie dominant, what did you have to do to adjust?

Sarah:  I had been out of the scene for about a year so all of it was a bit of an adjustment, especially considering my Master wasn’t part of that equation. Sawyer’s initial lack of confidence took some getting used to, as well. I was used to either overconfident Dominants or experienced ones, Sawyer’s willingness to accept guidance in a masculine way was refreshing.

Krissi: Do you think your late husband/Master (Doug) would approve of you being with Sawyer?

Sarah: Absolutely. I believe Master Doug would approve of anyone who makes me happy and can give me the kind of discipline that I need in a loving manner.

La Crimson Femme: Sawyer, back to you.  What was the most surprising thing to you about BDSM?

Sawyer:  The amount of respect, openness and love within the community, and the nonjudgmental attitude. BDSM really gets a bad rap. If only everyone in the ‘vanilla’ world adhered to the same honesty and openness, I dare to say that the divorce rate wouldn’t be as high.

La Crimson Femme: Mmm, speaking of openness… Sawyer, what kinks do you want to try next? What three things would you think isn’t for you but you might be open to trying it?

Sawyer:  Three things? Hmmm… I’m not sure I can come up with that many.

Role playing or abduction play. It seems a little silly to pretend to be someone else, but that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t try it. I mean, hell, Sarah dressed up as a fair maiden or Victorian damsel in distress and me as a pirate, kidnapping her and pillaging her booty? Yeah, I could get into that with a little oral persuasion.

Blood or edge play. Isa and Dylan are into that and I’ve seen them perform it on one another, but I just don’t know... It seems so extreme. Then again, they make it look so intimate and sexy. So maybe someday…

Krissi: What's with Dylan's cheeky sense of humor in this book? He never seemed like a comedian in any of the other stories.

Sawyer:  He’s always had a sense of humor that was deep-seated. As time went on, Dylan’s comfort level with himself, Isa and me grows. He has becomes more relaxed and I think he realizes that Isa and I care for him unconditionally, so allows that part of himself to come out.

La Crimson Femme: Sarah, now that Sawyer’s fessed up, what scene would you like to try with Sawyer that you haven’t mentioned because you were afraid it may be too much for now?

Sarah: He just mentioned it - role playing! I’m surprised he brought it up. This man never ceases to amaze me. I can hardly wait to ‘orally persuade’ him into dressing up as an airline pilot to my stewardess.

La Crimson Femme: Roleplaying it is!  So, when you guys are 64, do you think you will still be doing kinky scenes? What do you think will be different?

Sawyer:  I certainly hope so. I mean, you got to have something to look forward to, right? And you’re only as old as you feel. I’ll probably have more wrinkles on my balls, but other than that, I’m not sure what else will be different. Maybe my stamina? Shit, I hope not. Jesus, 64 isn’t really that old, is it?

La Crimson Femme: 64 isn’t that old now that I’m getting closer to it.  As for more wrinkles on your balls, I hear the Violet Wand helps reduce wrinkles.  Want Sarah to help you out that way?

Krissi: *giggles*

Sarah: *howls with mirth*

Sawyer:  *scowls and glares at each of the three ladies*  Not funny. I may test something on myself first.  The Violet Wand on my balls is not my first choice in testing. 

La Crimson Femme: *winks at Sarah* I had to ask!  Thank you Sarah and Sawyer for joining us today.  Thank you Krissi for helping me out.  Hope everyone enjoys the little audio excerpt of Sarah and Sawyer together.

Sarah: Oh my, how embarrassing.  Thank you for reminding me. *blushes*

Sawyer:  *smirks*


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